Wednesday, January 23, 2013

Perfect Guys Don’t Exist

男生版:
“He’s not perfect. You aren’t either, and the two of you will never be perfect. But if he can make you laugh at least once, causes you to think twice, and if he admits to being human and making mistakes, hold onto him and give him the most you can. He isn’t going to quote poetry, he’s not thinking about you every moment, but he will give you a part of him that he knows you could break. Don’t hurt him, don’t change him, and don’t expect for more than he can give. Don’t analyze. Smile when he makes you happy, yell when he makes you mad, and miss him when he’s not there. Love hard when there is love to be had. Because perfect guys don’t exist, but there’s always one guy that is perfect for you.” 

― Bob Marley


女生版:
“You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved before she may love again. But if she loves you now, what else matters? She's not perfect - you aren't either, and the two of you may never be perfect together but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can. She may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break - her heart. So don't hurt her, don't change her, don't analyze and don't expect more than she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when she's not there.” 


― Bob Marley

觉得 Bob Marley‘的Quotes很有道理。

“ He’s not perfect. You aren’t either.” 这句话很中肯。
才前几天,我激动地在 Facebook po 了任性的话;他难过地哭了。
我没想到他会为我流泪。我曾经对他说过,“快乐留给你,悲伤我带走,眼泪我会帮你流。”
可是我做了什么?我才是伤害他的人,是我质疑他对我的感觉,我放不下,放不下身边的人所给我的伤疤。


“ He isn’t going to quote poetry, he’s not thinking about you every moment, but he will give you a part of him that he knows you could break. ”  他不浪漫,也不会把我放在第一的位置;但是他给了我,他的心。

“ Love hard when there is love to be had.” 珍惜,当下的美好;把握,现在能把握的。
“ Because perfect guys don’t exist, but there’s always one guy that is perfect for you.” 


p/s 会看我部落格的朋友,记得这是不能说的秘密 =) 

Thursday, October 25, 2012

重要的日子

十月二号,
重要的日子。

那天的心情,
那天的情景,
我都要记得。

'' 喂?晓霞吗?''
'' .........嗯 。怎么了?''
'' 你现在在干嘛?你在睡觉喔?''
'' 对啊~你怎么知道?''
'' 我当然知道咯~怎么样?有没有哭在烧焦面包上,然后弄到它满脸都是鼻涕?''
'' ...没有啦~哪有?''
'' 晓霞,你真的觉得你是替代品吗?

沉默,因为我的心痛了一下。

''.....嗯。''
''你真的对自己那么没信心吗?''
''....嗯.。我真的对自己没有信心''
''你知道吗?我突然想起一句话: 把握我现在能把握的!.........''
我深吸一口气,再问他一次:''.....所以....我不是替代品?''
''你不是啊!........''

我笑了。之后他说什么我已经听不进去了。感动的泪水流下,衷心的感谢牠。
此刻,我好想好想见他。很想。

''晓霞,今天的星星好美哦!''
'' Huh?你怎么看到的?''
''因为我在外面啊!我现在就在你家门口。''

我又笑了。喜悦。兴奋。我赶紧跳下床。
由于没吃三餐的关系,我稍微晕眩了一下,轻轻地跌在小床边。
不过我不管再弱的身体,我爬起来,飞快跑去门口。
我的心告诉我 : ''  我要去见他! ''

打开门,冷风迎面吹来。我看到他,他微笑看着我。




Tuesday, October 2, 2012

又受伤了

嗯。我又再次受伤了。
Aho 。对。我就是 Aho。
不想活在别人的影子之下,despite 我多想要拥有。
因为我的自尊不让我这样做。





                               
 Some say love it is a river
that drowns the tender reed
Some say love it is a razer
that leaves your soul to bleed
Some say love it is a hunger
an endless aching need
I say love it is a flower
and you it's only seed
It's the heart afraid of breaking
that never learns to dance
It's the dream afraid of waking that never takes the chance
It's the one who won't be taken
who cannot seem to give
and the soul afraid of dying that never learns to live
When the night has been too lonely
and the road has been too long
and you think that love is only
for the lucky and the strong
Just remember in the winter far beneath the bitter snows
lies the seed
that with the sun's love
in the spring
becomes the rose

Monday, September 17, 2012

非诚勿扰


那句两年前一直想要听的那句 ‘I miss U’
来得实在太迟了…


你还是跟以前一样自私,
狠狠地,
将我的自尊给打碎,
不管我的伤口是否还在淌血。

两年前我们在一起,
两年后我们分开。
这是我选择,
这是我要的,
-Happy Ending.-

请非诚勿扰。

Thursday, August 2, 2012

想做天秤座

人生很无常,看到身边的朋友的家人,一些病的病得更严重了;一些没病的突然离世了。

在跑道上,我们头也不回的忙着赛跑;在人生路上我们也是一样。
很后悔不曾回头看看后面的风景,后面的人。是否忽略或错过了什么?
是不是应该趁机会好好珍惜跟把握呢?

如果能做到平衡,那有多好。
...可惜我不是天秤座。

Thursday, April 26, 2012

感谢你

选择了医学,有好有坏;有快乐有难过;有满足有辛酸...
五味杂陈,是人生;
是我追求梦想必须经历的一部分·。
不过,
真的很感谢身边的好友一直给我鼓励、支持;
这条路才不会走的那么辛苦、无助。
(还给我凿壁偷光的勇气 ..哈哈)

Monday, March 19, 2012

燃烧青春

年轻,就是要疯狂。
年轻,没有钱,
青春就是最大的本钱。

觉得自己过去真的浪费了太多的时间和青春
没让自己好好的玩过,疯过
小学懵懂,别人埋头读书,自己也埋头读起来
中学也埋头在读书,只为上到好大学
大学又埋头苦读,只为拿到学位
如果工作还要埋头的话
那我也不知道我活着来干嘛?只为埋头吗?
辛苦大半辈子赚钱,到老了才来花吗?
我老了,我还能有时间、精力去花吗?

钱,不用多,够吃够穿够花就好了
爸妈也没有叫我们一定要赚很多很多的钱
他们只要我们开心就好

不是吗?


 



女生的青春,

不应该就这样白白浪费掉。
有什么要做的,
就马上去做。
想吃什么,
就去吃个够本。
有梦想的,
就去好好的实践。
要去旅行的,
去收拾背包去吧。
要谈恋爱的,
就狠狠地谈一次。
开心就好,
快乐就好。
就这样尽情的疯狂
青春燃烧,燃烧青春。


--真的 一时兴起才写的,连修正句子也嫌麻烦。哈!